Life never moves in a straight line.

Flourish Beyond Your Limits

  • Beyond Doubt

    At Flourishing Oak, we understand that questions of faith, purpose, and meaning can lead to profound inner struggles. We’re here to guide you through these doubts, helping you find clarity and a renewed sense of direction. Together, we’ll explore what truly resonates, so you can build a life anchored in authentic purpose and meaningful connections. Let’s flourish—beyond doubt.

  • Beyond Conflict and Betrayal

    Relational hurt and broken trust can leave deep wounds, challenging your sense of connection, trust, and self-worth. At Flourishing Oak, we believe healing is possible. Together, we’ll navigate the path to forgiveness, rebuild trust, and empower you to cultivate healthy, fulfilling relationships. Move beyond the pain into a life of renewed hope, connection, and strength. Let’s flourish—beyond the hurt.

  • Beyond Grief

    Grief can feel overwhelming, leaving you lost and uncertain of how to move forward. At Flourishing Oak, we’re here to help you honor your loss while gently guiding you toward healing. Together, we’ll find ways to embrace memories, rebuild hope, and step into a life where joy and meaning can flourish again. Move beyond the pain of loss and rediscover your strength and resilience. Let’s flourish—beyond grief.

Our Services

  • Free Consultation - $0

    Ready to begin your journey? Schedule a free consultation today and discover how Flourishing Oak can support you.

  • Individuals - $99

    Empower your growth and healing with personalized support tailored to your unique needs. Let’s start building the life you envision.

  • Couples/Families - $99

    Rebuild trust, improve communication, and foster deeper connections within your relationships. We’ll help your relationships flourish!

Meet the Team

At Flourishing Oak, our team is dedicated to helping individuals, families, and children thrive. With decades of combined experience in pastoral, clinical, and life coaching, we bring a compassionate, personalized approach to every session. Our coaches, Matt and Juan, draw from their professional expertise, each holding a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy, along with personal journeys of resilience, to guide clients in building self-worth, purpose, and lasting change. Whether you’re seeking growth, healing, or direction, we’re here to walk alongside you on your path to flourishing.

  • Co-Founder, Life Coach, and Ordained Minster

    Hi, I’m Matt, a Life Coach dedicated to helping individuals, families, and children find balance, connection, and purpose. With over 25 years in pastoral and clinical counseling, I offer personalized, empowering support to those seeking meaningful change. My own journey through challenges like anxiety and adversity has shown me the power of resilience, self-acceptance, and growth—passions I bring to each session. I work with clients from all walks of life, meeting them with authenticity, empathy, and practical tools to navigate life’s complexities. Let’s take the next step together—reach out today to start your journey toward flourishing.

  • Co-Founder, Life Coach, and Grief Specialist

    I’m Juan, here to help you discover purpose and meaning in life. I bring compassion, humor, and a deep commitment to each session. I’ve worked across diverse settings, from hospice care and drug treatment programs to humanitarian efforts, creating safe, welcoming spaces where people can explore what it means to live fully. Life’s challenges, especially loss and uncertainty, can leave us feeling lost—but I’m here to support you with empathy, encouragement, and practical guidance. Let’s walk this journey together as you find clarity, strength, and purpose.

FAQs

  • Life doesn’t move in a straight line. Just like our Scribble Oak logo’s twists and turns, your journey may feel messy, especially during hard times. When you step back, though, you’ll see the unique beauty, strength, and hope in the chaos. We’re here to help you discover that beauty and flourish!

  • Inspired by the mighty oak, a symbol of resilience, growth, and strength, we believe in helping you nurture these qualities for a fulfilling life. Like the oak tree that takes time to grow, we honor the patience needed for healing and finding purpose. As Pathfinders, we provide empathetic support, honoring your resilience and guiding you through life’s challenges toward new possibilities. Much like an acorn grows into a tree with a beautiful array of branches, your journey can lead to wondrous outcomes. Book a free 15-minute consultation with a life coach to begin your path to flourishing!

  • A Flourishing Oak Life Coach helps you find purpose and fulfillment, even in times of uncertainty. We listen, explore, and support you with empathy and guidance. Here are ways we help:

    Problem Resolution: We help you navigate challenges in personal growth, career, relationships, spirituality, and other areas.

    Goal Achievement: We support you in setting and reaching goals, enhancing skills, emotional intelligence, and productivity.

    Skill Development: From time management and leadership to mindfulness and assertiveness, we help you develop tools for positive change.

    Emotional Support: We provide a safe space to address emotional, cognitive, or spiritual concerns and offer strategies for managing stress and distress.

    Accountability: We keep you on track and celebrate your progress, helping you stay motivated toward your goals.

    Personal & Spiritual Growth: We foster self-understanding, empathy, and a desire to deepen your faith and spiritual practice.

    Improved Well-Being: Our aim is to enhance your overall well-being, helping you feel more fulfilled and prepared for life’s challenges.

  • No, we do not provide psychotherapy or crisis intervention. Contact us for referrals! In an emergency, please call 911. For mental health crises, dial 988.

  • To ensure we’re providing the best fit for your needs, our rates can vary based on the type of service and session length. If you’re interested in learning more about our specific fees, please don’t hesitate to reach out. We’re here to help make this investment in yourself feel both accessible and worthwhile. Book a free 15-minute consultation, and let’s create a plan that works for you.

  • We offer both in-person (San Diego County) and secure virtual sessions, similar to what you might expect from your primary care or mental health provider.

  • Book a complimentary 15-minute session with a Life Coach here.

  • We cannot guarantee specific results, as change can be challenging and may initially impact relationships or employment. However, your Pathfinder will guide you through potential challenges and provide referrals as needed. You are capable of hard things, and we’re here to support you every step of the way.

  • We dedicate part of our income to local community programs in San Diego, efforts against child trafficking in Cambodia and Haiti (Rapha House), and housing for children in El Porvenir, Mexico (Niños de Baja). Our sliding scale makes it possible to offer affordable Life Coaching, extending quality care to those with lower incomes.

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